tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32547291636275275442024-03-22T02:55:49.008+08:00A life to walk...appreciate what we have now and plan better for tomorrow to come...Ms Jhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12434940879878870949noreply@blogger.comBlogger254125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3254729163627527544.post-38887282084597629642012-10-24T09:59:00.003+08:002012-10-24T10:15:27.545+08:00Hungry for Burn"Next station, KLCC" the announcer said, my train is approaching KLCC station..<br />
"Ding dong" the door opens. I went up from my sit (yes luckily I got a seat today!) and squeezed myself to allow myself walking towards the exit door. Silently, I walked towards the escalator and up I went to the gate.<br />
Everything was done in a fast pace, not very fast, but fast! This is the routine of my 5 days in a week for more than 2000 days already!<br />
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At the exit, I will always catch the morning free newspaper. It's only available for Klang valley I guess, where I can captured what's going on in the world in brief. I don't watch tv news, my tv was broken anyway - awaiting the supplier to repair- and I don't like reading online newspaper at home - my time after work should be for the kids as I've spent most of time at work already!-and at home I don't dicsuss world or national news with my husband because the argument would be endless - better to avoid that!<br />
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The news that captured my sight was a news on a burn child. He was 6 years old. Same as my boy, that was why I am so touched when reading it - and actually a little bit dissapointed with the father , by the way, I wonder what was the mother doing at that time?working?. The incident happened during "Piala Malaysia" - a final football match between Kelantan and ATM. What was happened?<br />
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The poor child was hungry, he needs something to eat. The father was busy watching the match, there he went the independent boy, did not want to disturb his father, went to the kitchen and boiled some water using a kettle all by himself. Once boiled, he failed to lift the kettle safely and that was how the hot boiled water poured onto him and leaves him on 2nd degree burn.<br />
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What can we as parent learnt from this?<br />
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Here are from my perspective and experience.<br />
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1) Never ever leave your young children unattended when they are in the kitchen. Kitchen is a very hazardous place for young children. Even when my eldest took up a kitchen scissor and then leave it somewhere else after used, I will yelled out loud to remind him to put where it should be because the younger may accidentaly take it and cut himself without anyone knowing it. <br />
2) If possible, renovate your kitchen and put door. So, the youngs will not come in to the kitchen whenever we are relaxing at the couch or doing somework at somewhere else. I noticed, Malaysian loves open concept kitchen which is actually not safe if your are living with small kids. Kitchen area is very dangerous - gas, knives, hot oven, stoves, heavy kitchen tools, kitchen appliances - all these may cause injuries even to the adult! I was longing for this but thinking of renovation will cause more harm to the kids - the dust, the irritated sound of hammering- so I just forget it. However, my future house - must be with a closed door kitchen!<br />
3)When a child says he's hungry, please take note, it is real! Child never lies unless being taught to lie. As the parents, it is our responsibility to feed our children. So prepare for them if it's a cook food, don't let them do themselves without adult supervision! Or just leave some biscuits at a place that is reachable by a small kids where they canget themselves easily. The kettle is just too heavy for a small hand of 6 years old and plus it's hot!<br />
4)6 years old has limited capability to do things independently. Their thinking is not well matured. Their action are still not proactive but more reactive. They only have limited instinct on what would happen next as compared to adults. That is why I believe everything must be done under adult supervision. Even my own son, requested to have his own shower, I won't let him closed the toilet door completely. We have to expect the unexpected with a hope the unexpected won't happen. Just to ensure, that if anything bad happen (nauzubillah), at least we will get to him the fastest we can. I also never taught him to lock the door when he is in. I am afraid he may accidentaly locked the door from inside when he forgot to unlock it after leaving the area.<br />
5)DO NOT GET YOURSELF TOO OCCUPIED WITH OTHER THINGS in your own house when you are bearing small children. They need our attention when at home. We left them at the caretaker or with the maid for most the daytime and evening is the time they want the attention from the parents - bonding time. That's why I forget the tv, because I don't want to jeopardize my time for the kids. Life as parents obviously as challenge as it seems. You cannot expect things will be as usual after you get married and have children. There is a lot of sacrifices needed in building up a healthy and happy family.<br />
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Sometimes I see technology is interrupting the relationship among humans and environment. I can see people today get so occupied with the gadget, like living in their own world. I was like that too once, and then I realized I need to control myself, adjusting myself, only use the technology when the kids are not around so I will not create another problem to myself or to the kids. Am feel more relax when at home, I'm now totally disengaged with technology and just spent my ears and eyes onto my children. It's really a relief! Seeing your children happy faces is the most wonderful experience that you can get only once in your lifetime! Time is running fast, in a blink of eyes, then only you will realise, they are all grown ups and need no more attention from the parents. Appreciate more your bonding time with children before you regret it!Ms Jhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12434940879878870949noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3254729163627527544.post-58440926176089673062012-10-12T13:05:00.001+08:002012-10-12T13:08:46.942+08:00Our Hero Turns 6!<em>Mama..mama...nanti harijadi saya, saya nak kek boboiboy yang ada Fang...lepas tu saya nak hadiah jam, dengan PSP...</em><br />
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Kalau melayan kehendak anak, memang pening..hari ni mintak ini, hari lain mintak lain pulak...tapi kali ni..nampak consistency dalam permintaan anak bujang saya yang telahpun meniti 6 tahun perjalanan hidup...Alhamdulillah, Allah beri kesempatan pada saya untuk mengandungkan, merasai alahan semasa mengandung, merasa pergerakan bayi di dalam perut, merasai kesakitan sewaktu melahirkan, merasai kesan selepas melahirkan, menyusukan dengan susu badan, merasai nikmat kucupan sayang hampir setiap dari mula tahu untuk mengucup sayang...syukur Alhamdulillah...nikmat yang mungkin ramai ibu-ibu lain turut merasainya. Inilah anak sulung saya, wajah persis campuran saya dan suami, lemah lembut dalam berkata-kata, tidak pandai melawan, anak yang taat pada mama dan ayah, bijak dimata mama, papa dan adik. Cukupla kesempurnaan itu hanya dimata kami sekeluarga. Bersyukur sangat-sangat, Allah memberi izin untuk saya memiliki anak sebaik anak ini..Alhamdulillah..apa lagi yang dapat saya tuturkan selain Alhamdulillah.<br />
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Harini pada tahun masehi, 2006, 6 tahun yang lalu, jam 4.45 petang, lahirlah seorang pejuang. <br />
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Saya hanya mengetahui yang saya sebenarnya telah bersedia untuk bersalin semasa rawatan bulanan yang terakhir. Doktor pakar membuat andaian bahawa saya mungkin lambat lagi bersalin disebabkan kepala bayi masih tinggi. Jadi semasa rawatan terakhir, doktor kerap bertanya sama ada tanda-tanda bersalin telah berlaku kepada saya atau belum. Saya haya mampu menidakkan. Lalu beliau membuat semakan "intrusive" kepada saya. Secara spontan, beliau berkata, jalan keluar dah buka 2 cm, lalu bertanya kembali untuk pengesahan kepada saya, sama ada saya ada mengalami kontraksi. Saya hanya mampu geleng kepala dan tersenyum-senyum. <br />
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<em>Macam mana rasa kontraksi, period pain pun tidak pernah</em><br />
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Hati berdetik. Saya masih kekal positig untuk menghadapi ayat-ayat seterusnya dari doktor pakar. Beliau menyarankan saya untuk masuk ke wad bersalin keesokkan harinya. Saya masih berpuasa, ya, masa itu adalah Ramadhan, saya bercita-cita untuk melahirkan semasa malam yang dikatakan turunnya Al-Quran, tapi sudah terlepas. Lalu saya berazam untuk melahir pada hari-hari yang ganjil dalm bulan Ramadhan. <br />
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Saya dan suami berpandangan. Saya tidak pasti apa yang suami fikirkan. Adakah beliau takut kehilangan saya, maklumlah, orang kata bersalin ni antara hidup dan mati. Saya pula terfikir apalah kesudahannya nanti, mampukah saya menghadapinya secara semulajadi? Saya menolak "induction" dan jugak menolak bantuan "epidural". Sebenarnya lebih takutkan jarum dari saket. Saket bersalin memang tidak pernah hadir dalam imaginasi saya - adakah seperti menghadapi sakaratulmaut?<br />
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Jam 11 malam, pergi menyerah diri di bahagian "emergency". Bidan mula memeriksa menggunakan alat CTG untuk mengesan kehadiran kontraksi. Saya diberitahu, kontraksi agak kuat tetapi masih jauh jaraknya antara satu sama lain. Bilik single masih penuh, jadi saya diberi bilik suite yang agak besar, tetapi perlu ditampung sedikit kos nya untuk satu malam, sebab kelayakan saya hanyalah bilik single. Lalu berehatlah saya dalam berdebar-debar. Setelah subuh, bidan datang memeriksa lagi, dan memberitahu saya akan dimasukkan ke bilik bersalin dalam pukul 8.30 pagi. Waktu subuh telah masuk, jadi saya bersolat dahulu. Solat yang masih boleh dilakukan sementara belum masuk ke bilik bersalin. <br />
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Di dalam bilik bersalin, saya tidak dibenarkan bangun kecuali untuk ke bilik air. Pundi kencing dikosongkan menggunakan catheter yang sangat tidak selesa dan perit. Dalam hati memang saya menyumpah-nyumpah prosedur itu, membuatkan saya berada dalam mood yang tertekan. Selain itu, setiap sejam, akan datang bidan yang berbeza untuk periksa bukaan secara seluk yang sangat pedih dan tidak selesa. Hanya apabila doktor pakar sendiri melakukan, saya merelakan kerana kepercayaan saya pada kepakaran beliau. Doktor meletakkan jangkaan yang saya dah boleh bersalin selepas tgh hari dalam pukul 1 - 2 petang.<br />
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Pukul 1.15 petang, doktor pakar datang kembali, dan periksa. Masih belum "full dilate". Jadi doktor telah memberi kata putus, kalau masih tidak ada kemajuan, saya terpaksa dibedah kerana air ketuban semakin sikit. Doktor memberi ruang masa sehingga jam 5 petang. Saya cuak.<br />
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<em>Ya Allah, permudahkan urusanku ini Ya Allah, buka lah jalan keluar untuk bayi ku ini..</em><br />
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Doa saya di dalam hati tidak berhenti-henti, sambil mulut kumat kamit membaca doa Nabi Yunus. Berkali-kali juga meminta maaf dari suami andai ada dosa-dosa saya dengan beliau yang menyebabkan kesukaran saya kali ini. Berteguk-teguk sampai habis sebotol air mineral 1.5 liter, air rendaman akar fatimah saya minum. Saya meminta suami menelefon mak yang menunggu di wad, supaya mendoakan saya dipermudahkan proses bersalin. Saya betul-betul tidak mahu dibedah. Saya ngeri. Pisau dan jarum. Mak jugak tidak putus-putus menghadiah surah yassin di bilik dan bersolat hajat untuk saya.<br />
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Saya hampir mengalir air mata sebab takut dibedah. Saya curi-curi meneran sebab teringat cerita seorang kakak di pejabat yang beliau meneran sedikit-sedikit untuk percepatkan proses bersalin. Dalam pukul 4 petang, seorang bidan datang menjenguk. Dalam kerisauan bidan terus memeriksa bukaan. Sudah ada peningkatan, sudah 8cm, lalu bidan tersebut duduk bersama saya, sambil mengurut laluan untuk membantu saya.<br />
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<em>Sabar yer, biar saya tolong awak, sikit saja lagi, InshaAllah, kejap lagi kita panggil Doktor...</em><br />
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Bidan itu terus memberi motivasi kepada saya yang sebenarnya ketakutan mengatasi kesakitan yang sedang dialami. Sambil membantu saya, bidan tersebut turut mendoakan saya dengan doa Nabi Yunus. Saya berasa sangat terharu, orang asing mendoakan saya. Allah sungguh sayang kepada saya dengan memberi peluang kepada saya bertemu bidan ini, berada bersamanya di saat saya mungkin hampir mati!<br />
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Dalam pukul 4.30 ptg, doktor pakar pun tiba dengan terkocoh-kocoh kerana staff sudah cuba lebih 10 minit untuk mendapatkan beliau. Bukaan sudah berada pada tahap "full dilate". Sakitnya memang pertama kali menanggung, nurse beri gas untuk saya sedut bagi menahan sakit tersebut. Suami kelihatan panik dan berang. Mungkin tidak sanggup melihat saya meronta-ronta kesakitan sambil mengalir airmata.<br />
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Teran kali pertama, baru "crowning", teran kali kedua, tiada kemajuan, doktor beri saya rehat sekejap, nampak saya keletihan, lalu melakukan episiotomy yang menyebabkan saya menjerit kerana terlalu terkejut dengan bunyi rentapan tersebut. Nurse memarahi saya kerana dengan menjerit tenaga saya akan hilang. Paling menyedihkan, suami turut memberi amaran kepada saya supaya diam jangan menjerit. Saya menangis di dalam hati. Doktor yang baik memberi amaran pula kepada nurse tadi supaya biarkan saya nak jerit ke apa sebab beliau faham, tahap tolerasi seseorang terhadap kesakitan berbeza-beza. Lagipun saya tengah berjuang antara hidup dan mati, tiada hak untuk orang lain memarahi saya. Ini hidup dan mati saya!<br />
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<em>Cepat-cepat-cepat-cepat, ambil vacuum...</em><br />
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Doktor dengan pantas menarik kuar anak sulung saya dari dalam perut saya. Disambut nurse lalu dibersihkan dan dinangiskan. Jam di dinding menunjukkan pukul 4.45 petang. Putih bersih anak itu setelah ditunjukkan kepada saya. Airmata mengalir serta-merta. Perasaan bersyukut pada Allah datang bertubi-tubi dalam diri saya kerana saya pasti saya masih hidup, dan saya telah melahirkan seorang manusia yang bernyawa sebentar tadi. Doktor pantas melakukan kerja-kerja jahitan dan pembersihan luka. Saya hanya mampu merelakan. Perasaan puas memenuhi segenap tubuh saya. Puas melahirkan seorang bayi lelaki, penyambung keturunan untuk suami.<br />
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Setelah dibersihkan, suami mengazankan bayi yang baru menjenguk dunia. Setelah itu, bidan meletakkan bayi di atas badan saya untuk disusukan. Dengan bantuan nurse, bayi tersebut seolah-olah tahu cara melekapkan mulut pada puting, dan terus menghisap susu lagak seperti sudah biasa dengan situasi itu. Gembira tidak terkata di dalam hati saya, dan kagum dengan intelektual bayi yang baru beberapa minit dilahirkan, sudah pandai menyusu! SubhanAllah!<br />
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<em>Ya Allah, murahkanlah rezeki anak ku ini agar dia dapat menikmati susu ibu dari ku selama 2 tahun sekurang-kurangnya...</em><br />
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Itulah doa saya di dalam hati semasa pertama kali melihat aktiviti penyusuan antara saya dan bayi.<br />
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Sekarang bayi itu telah pun besar, 6 tahun umurnya. Anak yang mama paling sayang, sentiasa sayang, tidak putus sayang. Semoga terus menerus menyanyangi mama dan setia dengan mama. Anak yang sentiasa Allah murahkan rezeki untuknya, Alhamdulillah. Semoga membesar dengan sihat dan menjadi insan yang beriman dan bertaqwa kepada Allah s.w.t.<br />
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Selamat hari lahir anakku....Mama sayang selalu...<br />
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Sedang bersiap-siap untuk meninggalkan rumah, tiba-tiba telefon bimbit berbunyi menandakan ada pesanan ringkas yang masuk. Hati berdebar-debar, pesanan apa yang masuk pagi-pagi begini, pasti pesana penaja dari syarikat telekomunikasi....hati telah berdetik untuk tidak mahu melihat...<br />
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Lalu di meja, mata dikerling ke arah telefon, lalu ditekan punat telefon untuk membaca pesanan yang masuk. Eh, ni pesanan dari manusia...bukan bot..Seorang kenalan baik yang menghubungi melalui pesanan ringkas..berkehendakkan sesuatu yang saya boleh mendapatkannya...<br />
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Ilmu saya cetek dalam bab-bab nutrisi, nutrisi yang biasa-biasa tu, bolehlah nak bercerita, tetapi ini LECITHIN..saya sendiri tidak pernah mengambilnya, kerana tiada keperluan..Orang cakap, mesti amik supplement...tapi dengan saya..ikot keperluan...saya tidak memaksa...dan tak mahu memaksa...semua atas diri sendiri yang berkehendak...kerana yang menanggung akibat (baik atau buruk) adalah diri kita sendiri bukan? </div>
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Lalu saya bertanyakan kawan-kawan yang lebih berpengalaman, apa perlunya lecithin, buka brosur dan baca apa fungsi nya...buka blog mencari testimonial dari pengguna yang sebenar...lalu diterangkan kepada rakan...</div>
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Barulah diketahui...LECITHIN...untuk menurunkan berat badan...menurut teman, lagak lecithin seperti magnet...magnet menarik besi...LECITHIN menarik lemak...lalu dibuang dari system badan kita...simple..itulah yang dapat diterjemahkan secara analogi...</div>
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Saya tidak menyimpan stok sebab saya peniaga kecil-kecilan..ada permintaan, saya usahakan, tidak kira besar atau kecil, inshaAllah saya akan usahakan...kalau nak tahu lebih lanjut tentang lecithin ni...carian google dapat memberi jawapan sebenar...kerana saya tidak mempunyai kredibiliti untuk membuat sebarang pernyataan kerana saya bukan ahli nutrisi...saya cuma tahu asas-asas nya sahaja...secara terperinci belum lagi...kalau nak mencubanya, ingin saya beritahu...LECITHIN ini berasas soya...untuk yang alah soya...saya tidak menggalakkan kerana khuatir akan menimbulkan kesan alergi..</div>
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Kalau mahu cuba, saya boleh order terus dari stokis dan hantar ke rumah anda..cuma tambahan untuk pengeposan sebanyak RM10. Beli banyak pun RM10, beli sikit pun RM10. Boleh hubungi saya untuk mengetahui harga yang ditawarkan yer!<br />
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Ms Jhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12434940879878870949noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3254729163627527544.post-59443950067612921452012-10-02T16:27:00.000+08:002012-10-02T16:29:01.861+08:00Vitamin B,C,EHello! Kembali menulis setelah sekian lama blog ini tergantung tanpa penulisan yang terbaru. 2 penulisan sebelum ini, adalah berkaitan dengan produk Shaklee. Ya, saya telah menjadi ahli keluarga Shaklee sebab ingin mencuba sendiri produk-produknya. Masih bayi dalam perniagaan MLM yang boleh dikatakan agak selamat ini. Sesiapa yang ingin mencuba perniagaan ini, sila-silalah maklumkan kepada saya, mungkin saya boleh membantu sebaik yang saya mampu, InshaAllah.<br />
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Vitamin yang sedang saya ambil ketika ini adalah yang dikatakan untuk meningkatkan tahap kesihatan kulit. Alhamdulillah, ketakutan menelan pil yang besar telah dapat diatasi. Set untuk kesihatan kulit terdiri daripada VITAMIN B COMPLEX, VITAMIN C dan VITAMIN E COMPLEX. Permulaannya, jadual rutin untuk saya mengambil ketiga-tiga vitamin ini, adalah, <br />
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Pagi - selepas sarapan/bersama sarapan - VITAMIN C<br />
Tengahari - selepas/semasa makan - VITAMIN B COMPLEX<br />
Malam - selepas/semasa makan - VITAMIN E COMPLEX<br />
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Mesti tertanya-tanya, mengapa saya tuliskan "bersama" dan "semasa" di atas. Mengikut pembacaan saya (lupa pulak website mana), vitamin-vitamin diatas boleh diambil semasa "meal". Bermakna, hanya makan vitamin setelah perut diisi, elakkan mengambil semasa perut kosong! Nama pun "supplement" iaitu "penambah", jadi cantik elok lah vitamin diambil semasa atau selepas makan untuk menggantikan kuantiti nutrien yang tidak cukup dalam "meal" kita itu.<br />
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Kenapa pulak vitamin C makan waktu pagi, tgh hari B complex, malam vitamin E pula? Vitamin C, rasanya masam, sama seperti kita makan buah oren, selepas makan buah-buahan, bukankah badan terasa sangat segar? Jadinya waktu terbaik pengambilan vitamin disarankan adalah pada waktu pagi, jadi badan lebih terasa kesegarannya. B complex pulak dipercayai dapat memberi tenaga kepada badan, untuk saya, badan akan mula terasa letih bila sampai waktu tengah hari, jadinya, untuk kembali segar, saya pun mengambil vitamin B untuk kekal bertenaga sekurang-kurangnya sehingga pukul 10 malam. Vitamin E pula lebih sesuai diambil sebelum tidor, kerana vitamin E dapat membantu kita untuk tidur (sila google untuk kepastian). Jadi, untuk yang tidur lewat dalam pukul 11 ke atas, seelok-eloknya disarankan ambil "supper" sedikit seblum makan vitamin ini. <br />
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"Cheat" tips dari seorang yang susah nak telan pil macam saya, sekurang-kurangnya, tak perlu nak makan pil banyak-banyak dalam satu masa. :) Sekarang dan berani telan banyak-banyak, jadinya, Vitamin C dan Vitamin B diambil sekali harung selepas sarapan, dan Vitamin E selepas makan malam. Alhamdulillah, setakat ini, badan dah kurang rasa letih-letih, dah jadi rajin memasak, sebab tenaga masih berbaki bila sampai rumah, jimat wang rumah. Anak-anak pun suka sangat sebab dapat makan masakan saya. Alhamdulillah, syukur, kesihatan kulit saya pula, tidak berani nak kata apa-apa sebab kulit saya memang kurang masalah (bukan tiada langsung), cuma dah kurang bintil-bintil (macam ruam) yang tetiba muncul suatu ketika dulu setelah memakai cleanser. Oh ya, saya memang tidak memakai cleanser, cleanser saya adalah wuduk..:) Jangan tiru saya, mungkin tak bagus untuk kesihatan.<br />
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Berminat untuk mencuba? Jangan segan-segan, boleh cuba sedikit untuk keserasian dengan badan. Saya dulu pun makan untuk sebulan, bila dah serasi, baru diteruskan dengan rasa yakin! <br />
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Hubungilah saya melalui email: jyl_ly@yahoo.com atau joelyghafar@gmail.com. Oh ya! Sila beri ruang selama 24 jam untuk saya respon kembali kepada anda. Terima kasih!<br />
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Suasana dingin di bdi bumi Scotland sangatlah nyaman. Pengalaman yg tidak mungkin berulang kembali. Masa yang berlalu, tetap berlalu, tetapi kenangan tetap terpahat di sanubari. Alhamdulillah, <em>maka</em> <em>nikmat Tuhanmu yg mana satu hendak kamu dustakan - </em>kata Allah dalam Surah Ar-Rahman. </div>
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Setiap hari melangkah ke kampus, kami suami isteri pasti menyediakan bekal sebagai langkah berjimat cermat. Di sana, kami merupakan golongan miskin, tetapi tidak layak menerima bantuan kerajaan kerana kami tidak dilahirkan disana. kami berjimat cermat untuk memastikan perbelanjaan sara hidup kami cukup tiap-tiap bulan dan tidak berhutang. Salah satu bekal ringkas yang sempat disediakan adalah sandwich.</div>
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Telur direbus sepenuh masak, kemudian di hancur-hancurkan. Untuk menambah rasa, diletakkan sedikit lada sulah, lada hitam, mayonis dan sedikit garam. Roti lebih kurang 30 pence saki baki penghabisan stok di SCOTMID, diambil 2 keping, lalu disapu dengan butter yang dibeli di ASDA. Setelah itu, lalu dilepa dengan telur campuran tadi serata-ratanya. Kemudian, direntap sedikit demi sedikit pokok berupa anak pokok tauge yang dibeli di ASDA pada suatu hujung minggu. Anak pokok itu kemudiannya ditabur diatas telur tadi, setelah itu baru dilapikkan dengan sekeping lagi roti. Proses yang sama diulang buat bekalan suami pula.</div>
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Satu set sandwich tersimpan kemas dalam <em>tupperware </em>untuk dijamah semasa waktu rehat selepas kelas yang pertama nanti.<br />
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Bagaimana agaknya nikmat hidangan sebegitu, di musim sejuk, bila bercakap, asap berkepul-kepul keluar dari mulut? Alhamdulillah, <em>maka</em> <em>nikmat Tuhanmu yg mana satu hendak kamu dustakan - </em>kata Allah dalam Surah Ar-Rahman. <br />
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Baru-baru ini, baru saya ketahui itu adalah alfafa - sama seperti alfafa SHAKLEE yang digemari ramai sekarang. Betapa "ignorant" nya saya terhadap label pada sayuran itu semasa membeli di ASDA. Membeli sesuatu tanpa melihat label! Bahaya! Mungkin boleh tersalah beli!<br />
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Alfafa dalam bentuk tablet telah diringkaskan, dan sebenarnya ternyata lebih nilai untuk wang anda, boleh jimat masa dan tenaga dari pergi mencari alfafa dalam bentuk yang asal. Ia juga sesuai untuk mereka yang tidak menggemari sayuran. Seperti yang diketahui umum, SHAKLEE memberi jaminan bahawasa produk-produk keluaran SHAKLEE adalah diperbuat dari sumber yang asli, sesuai untuk golongan <em>vegetarian, vegan</em> dan dijamin HALAL.<br />
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Mereka yang sering mengambil alfafa terdiri dari golongan ibu-ibu yang sedang menyusu-badan kan bayi-bayi. MashaAllah! <em>maka</em> <em>nikmat Tuhanmu yg mana satu hendak kamu dustakan - </em>kata Allah dalam Surah Ar-Rahman. Beruntung sangat ibu-ibu ini kerana berupaya memberikan susu yang istimewa buat bayi-bayi mereka dan tabahnya segelintir mereka ini dalam menghadapi cabaran menyusu. Salah satu ikhtiar, hanya dengan izin Allah, InshaAllah, adalah dengan pengambilan alfafa di dalam diet seharian. Hanya dengan 6 biji maksimum sehari, dengan tawaduknya berdoa, serta berusaha seterusnya bertawakal, Alhamdulillah, telah ramai ibu-ibu yang berjaya mengatasi cabaran penyusuan susuibu ini, termasuk rakan-rakan saya. Saya turut merasai kegembiraan mereka apabila mereka bercerita pengeluaran susu semakin meningkat dan mudah. Alhamdulillah, syukur pada Allah, sedikit sebanyak, saya telah membantu dengan berkongsi sedikit pengalaman saya dan pengalaman orang lain yang telah mencuba alfafa ini. Hanya kepada Allah kita berserah, hanya dengan izinNya, keajaiban boleh berlaku. Alfafa mungkin musabab, tetapi penentunya Allah jua. Oleh itu, berbanyakkanlah berdoa disamping berusaha.<br />
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Ms Jhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12434940879878870949noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3254729163627527544.post-7270433723364179722012-07-26T08:32:00.003+08:002012-07-26T08:35:12.744+08:00Of fasting & breastfeeding..Have heard about MIGHTY 3 GEMS? <br />
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Here I have some suggestions for you to keep your pace during this fasting month while you can happily continue your breastfeeding time with the little one. <br />
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Surely this is not meant to increase our breastmilk (if we do not express regularly), but it does help to prevent dehydration and electrolyte imbalance and at the same time helps to keep our calorie level up. Therefore it will keep us energized from fajr to dawn insya-Allah. That's why my friends and I called it MIGHTY 3 GEMS.<br />
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What most important is, it’s proven 100% safe with published clinical trials. Insya-Allah, breastfeeding journey during Ramadhan will be a wonderful experience.</div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">\(^_^) <em>Joely</em> (^_^)/</span></div>Ms Jhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12434940879878870949noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3254729163627527544.post-14419469699048422142012-07-20T10:54:00.001+08:002012-07-26T08:34:07.177+08:00Alhamdulillah...Alhamdulillah, syukur pada Allah. Usaha, doa dan tawakal saya terjawab. Alhamdulillah, terasa diri ni adalah insan istimewa di sisi-Nya. Syukur sbb Allah melimpahkan rezeki yg banyak buat kami sekeluarga. Tahun depan, bermulalah pengembaraan yang baru. Aqil akan mula bersekolah untuk tahun 1. Harapan saya, semoga Aqil melakukan yg terbaik untuk masa depan dia sendiri. Harapan untuk diri sendiri, supaya saya lebih bersedia untuk menghadapi cabaran2 baru di tahun hadapan. Expect the unexpected. Seriously, I don't know what's goind to happen next year. The school is actually a little bit far, not that far but taking into account the traffic to get there, I still feel it is far. So, now I am contemplating, nak anta pepagi sendiri or directly taking a monthly school bus which actually I'm quite worried for its safety., no safety belt, penuh mcm sardin...to the extreme...I resign jer....hahaha....xde sesak kepala...will be discussed later with hubby on this matter. Resign is not an option for me at least for now....hmmphh..<br />
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Tapi sebenarnya lebih kepada excited nak rasa kemeriahan bershoppping untuk back to school....eheheh....and also, when will I get monthly access card for KLCC building...already in the list since 2009....3 years have passed....hmmm...please..I am in need of that passcard starting next year....Ms Jhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12434940879878870949noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3254729163627527544.post-80457005881499718242012-03-08T15:39:00.002+08:002012-03-08T15:39:37.883+08:00Congratulations to ALL Govt Servant!Assalamualaikum.<br />
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Yes, we heard the break out news!<br />
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Would like to wish all of you congratulations! Alhamdulillah. We, the non government servant, really expecting an improved customer services by the government servant (Should I hunt MARA again to get my missing allowance while study? Is it worth the effort??? - been a year without a reply to my request letter).<br />
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Be thankful of what you are getting. The most important is our preparation for the afterlife. Don't forget to pay your zakat!<br />
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Eventhough I'm getting a well paid everymonth, I still don't have any branded bag such as coach (I think this is the cheapest branded type of bag). Use your money wisely, no matter how much you get every end of month...:)<br />
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Assalamualaikum.Ms Jhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12434940879878870949noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3254729163627527544.post-14788923228180846392012-03-05T13:40:00.001+08:002012-03-05T13:40:44.379+08:00Safeguarding the Muslim WomenAssalamualaikum, <br />
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It has been so long since my last post. Not is that I've been very busy, but lazy. :)<br />
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The new layout for blogger did take me sometimes to figure out where the create new post button, luckily, I found it and I knew it's a sign for me to post something here. I don't know if I still have my readers out there.<br />
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It always come to conclusion that I need to log out whenever ideas popped into my head. It was just the lazy bugs keep bugging me from everywhere. Hehe.<br />
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Well, I always have this in mind, since I turn 30 this year. Happy belated birthday to myself! The thing that've been thinking of is, I need a "CHANGE". Yeah, I need a good start to "CHANGE" anyway. It has been 30 years that I cherished every secon of it even I've forgotten all the memories when I was little kid. I really wish I can still remember them. Now, I really feel that I am an adult! Ha Ha.All this while I kept thinking that I am in my early 20s., and with that in mind, I think, it made me look younger than my real age or status as a mother of 2, for those who met me for the first time. And today, I think, I do look like my real age, I guess. I don't know.<br />
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The "CHANGE" that I mean here is a determination in becoming good servant to Allah the Al-mighty. That would be my focus from now on. I take it slowly and easy as I don't want it to be so jumpstart and then, spoilt. I can't remember very well how it seeps into me but I feel really good and ready about it. First thing that become my rule, is the "AURAT" or private part. <br />
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When first listened to the video from Ustaz Don via facebook, I was touched and reverted, on how I dressed up everyday. I know I've wearing hijab and decent attire before but when I listened to that video, there's still lacking. So, actually I reverted to the way I was before when I was so young. Sometimes, when your husband is all "OK" to what your dressed up, you tend to get carried away with it, plus, today, hijab has become a big fashion, a bit away from it original purpose, to cover your "AURAT". I really hope, my determination will become a continuos until my last breath. Ameen.<br />
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So sisters, lets put Allah first before fashion. Put on proper hijab and dress, you will feel very safe and secure. As to cover your "AURAT" is an order from Allah, written in Quran, verse 31, Surah An-Nur.<br />
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<em>"And tell the believing women to reduce [some] of their vision and guard their private parts and not expose their adornment except that which [necessarily] appears thereof and to wrap [a portion of] their headcovers over their chests and not expose their adornment except to their husbands, their fathers, their husbands' fathers, their sons, their husbands' sons, their brothers, their brothers' sons, their sisters' sons, their women, that which their right hands possess, or those male attendants having no physical desire, or children who are not yet aware of the private aspects of women. And let them not stamp their feet to make known what they conceal of their adornment. And turn to Allah in repentance, all of you, O believers, that you might succeed."</em><br />
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Assalamualaikum. :) . I am apologize for any misstatement, kindly leave your comment for me to correct it. Thank you.Ms Jhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12434940879878870949noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3254729163627527544.post-67504782455518023112012-01-12T13:36:00.001+08:002012-01-12T13:36:49.347+08:00PropertySemalam g tengok sebuah property. Ku sangka indah, rupanya indah khabar dari rupa. And I really feel that it was a waste of time, energy because I had to bring two toddlers along and the youngest was cranky started from our house all the way through to the intended property.<br />
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I was so curious, as we dealt with an agent, the agent was so secretive, didn't want to tell us the property whereabout. The agent just said in general and we got no clue where the location. Until last night, when we were about lost already, and my youngest was crying immensely in the car then the agent told us where the street was. It was night time OK! It was really dissapointing that the agent kept so secret until the seconds we were about to view the property. Then, my husband said, usually the agents are afraid of someone taking over promoting their property if they reveal the exact location of that property.<br />
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So, off we went to find the street. At that point of time, I already decided am not going to agree in buying this property at all but have a look first since hubby insisted me to follow him. I've already said days before, just him alone go and view the property as we have kids to take care of and it's going to affect our mood while viewing. And it really was. I was really moody last night as I haven't had my dinner yet and so were the kids. Aqil with his homework to finish, luckily he said he was full after having some tea at his school I believe. Asif was otherwise, he just recovered from a fever the night before, and he was a little bit cranky than usual. So, it was a very tiring night for me. Need to carry him while viewing and need to bear his crying. I was very puzzled why he was behaving that way, very demanding.<br />
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OK, back to property. I think MALAYSIA PROPERTY IS BAD!!!!! I don't mean for new property that you purchased from developer or new property from subsale.The condition just don't do justice with the price. The price quoted just because LOCATION, LOCATION, LOCATION................LOCATION! The condition was bad for me, and I was so surprised. If I were to sell my property, I will staged it to a good condition before selling it out. But yesterday, with the price quoted, I think it was wayyy so pricey Because I need to spend at least 100k to make it a move in cosy move in condition. And the location is not within our preference. That was why I said last night was a wasting of my time and energy!<br />
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So, nasihat saya, kalau xnak buang masa dan tenaga pegi view property and ended up you solidly xnak beli,try to ask for, the property floor plan!, property area if the agent berahsia sgt part nama jalan, dan jugak, try cek archive kt property website tu, kot2 die pnah advertise not so long ago and readvertised. And we just know ms viewing, that the house has been sold, however, the documentation never gets done due to the buyer financial crisis. If the agent told us earlier about this, then, we don't think to waster the agent's time and the owner time to let us view the house as we only knew from mulut, buatnya ckp jer..but sebenarnya lain..how meh????<br />
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Then I said to my hubby, kenape buyer sanggup yg beli rumah buruk2 tu at a high price. Mesti dah byk sgt duit sampai xtahu nk buat ape..so bli rumah buruk2 mahal pun tutup mata...then renovate kasi cunnnnn...:)..Disbbkan org2 cani lahh...harga property makin naik...and the main reason is LOCATION!<br />
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Ended up mlm td xtido, sbb pergi lawat property yg 6 month xberpenghuni, Asif xnyenyak. Bgn pagi cam mamai. Dtg opis, meeting kul 8.30 pagi, pehtu kene bebel dgn GM sbb ada org xsampai lagi. Dengan xde mknn masuk perut dh kene bebel pepagi so, oh stressed I was in the morning, mmg meledak2 nyer gunung berapi nk meletup kt situ2 jugak...kang kejap lagi kul 3 kang..mmg konfem sengguk2...kalau tak pun..saket kepala....Ms Jhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12434940879878870949noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3254729163627527544.post-59780793662844084062012-01-10T11:29:00.001+08:002012-01-10T11:30:20.308+08:00Pilih-pilihAlangkah baiknya kalau nk beli apa pun, dpt membeli pd harga yg kita mampu miliki. Tapi dalam pilih-pilih, takut bila dah pilih, tiba-tiba, ternampak pulak sesuatu yang lebih baik dari yang kita pilih, atau, pilih-pilih, saiz yg kita nak tu da xavailable. Tentu kecewa kan! Dan, bukan senang nak pujuk diri yang kecewa. Terasa, segalanya tak berpihak kepada kita. Memang kene berusaha supaya hati kita redha dgn ketentuanNya. Tambah sekarang, ada internet, bila melihat org lain punya sesuatu yg kita tidak miliki, tentu ada perasaan ingin memilikinya. Kalau dulu, berita disampai melalui telefon atau cakap2 mulut. Skang xperlu berckp, taip jer, tersebar lah berita tersebut ke serata dunia tanpa memikirkan perasan si pembaca. Eh, ape melalut ni! Haiyo!<br />
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Sebenarnya frust sbb terlps sesuatu disbb kan xtahu di mana silap. Tiba-tiba jer terasa tidak diberikan keadilan oleh manusia. Adakah wujud racism sbb saya ni MELAYU?? Ntahlah, Malaysia ni luaran je modern, mentaliti.? Sendiri-sendiri jer tahu...ye tak..?<br />
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Ku pohon Allah tabahkan hati, datangkan hikmah disebalik kekeciwaan ini..Ameen.Ms Jhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12434940879878870949noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3254729163627527544.post-41364009094457784802011-10-12T09:56:00.013+08:002012-01-10T11:38:49.545+08:0012.10.2011<br />
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This is my sweetiecuppycake son, Aqil. He has turn 5 today! He is cheerful, loving, caring, independent and tough young boy I've ever seen. I'm blessed by having him around my arms for 5 years now. I cherished every moment we've been through together and am looking forward to see you succeed in your future undertakings! I've always love you despite all the scold I throw towards you. You are my dearest son, forever and always praying for your health, good attitude and success! Happy Birthday Aqil!!</div>
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I have no idea why the cake photo turn up like that, I've photoed it vertically, and it appears like that. Sorry pals, you have to turn your head to see the sweet cake I've ordered for him to take to his schools today! And below it, was the last minutes preparation for his party pack, I've no idea what to put inside, I bought the toys earlier, not toys, it's an artwork and brain stimulus wood pieces. The balloon and the stick (whatever it is called) was added by my husband.</div>
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Aqil has asked for Cars2 party bag and Jake and the neverland pirates cake. He asked me to do it myself but, I don't know how to decorate actually, so, I delegated it to the expert! hehe..</div>
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I did nto get to taste the cake, I'll ask Aqil once he get back from school today! But, really, the deco amazed me so much! I did not expect it will be as such sweet! Thank you kak Naz! (Sorry, I forgot her website actually..I will google it later!)</div>Ms Jhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12434940879878870949noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3254729163627527544.post-61889207579074711862011-09-25T09:42:00.002+08:002011-09-25T09:53:58.851+08:00Pau inti JemTepung pau dah abes...erk..ada sape2 leh tolong blikan kt kedai bakeri? Bwk g KLCC ehh.. nk 2 kg jer.. Aqil suke betul mkn pau inti jem!<br /><br />Asalnya, mmg ada beli tepung pau kt EZ bakeri kt muor sbb dh dekat dgn umah MIL tapi bli 1 kg jer..utk trial. pastu lama gile tersimpan, xbuat-buat. Asyik delay jer. Pastu cari punya cari resepi terjumpa pulak resepi kt blog nor..jadinya try lah resepi tu. Kendian, baru perasan, xde seri kaya kt umah..haha..jadi amik ganti jem stroberi yg slalu buat bekfes Aqil tu jadi pengganti utk inti. Nak buat inti lain, kentang xde, ayam xde kan...jd nk cepat..buat jem jer jadi inti.<br /><br />Dah abes bersilat kt dapur wat pau, siap la pau inti jem. Aqil suke gila. Tapi papa dia xgemar, die nk inti kari ayam+kentang, Almaklum wife dia nk cepat ajer, yelah bdn sekeping kan, cepatlah penatnya..ehehe..makan lak kurang...kdg2 terlupa yg diri ni xmkn lagi...xminum lg..psl dok sibuk sediakan itu ini kt rumah..<br /><br />Oh gambo xde pulak..eheh..so 1 paket 1kg tu..dpt wat 3 kali jer..2nd time buat baru lah dpt inti kaya...byk gila buat..dh igt leh dibuat frozen..tp esoknya abes...:P..jd xsempat ler masuk dlm freezer..kali ke-3 kes nk perabis saki baki tepung..so buat 1/3 dijadikan donut..fuh lembut giler hokey..ehehe..buat mini donuts...yg lain wat mini pau inti jem...tp sygnyer sebiji pau terpaksa masuk tong sampah sbb die basah kene air wap..:(..geram2..mini donut tu..ade la dapat dlm 10 ketul cemtu..sy dpt mkn seketul jer...yg lain dingap oleh Aqil dgn papa dia..Asif mkn separuh jer..Saya mkn keledek goreng..ntah hangin ape..saja nk mkn keledek..tp keledek dia xbp manis..but ok lah...nk perabiskan santan belen wat rendang daging tgh hari tu...sedap jugak....eheheh...keledek goreng perisa santan...hmmm..tinggi calori tuu....Ms Jhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12434940879878870949noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3254729163627527544.post-54549970904410359202011-09-23T08:50:00.003+08:002011-09-23T09:18:25.955+08:00Curi masa siketHarini dapat curi masa sket sbb keje urgent dah siap, tinggal tunggu org review. Org tu lak busy. Ada lagi satu kerja yg xsiap2, tp bhn asas dah ada, tinggal nk make up2 ajer. Alhamdulillah. Taskforce pulak, stop for 2 weeks, utk siapkan homework termasuk keje yg xsiap2 tu. So, terisi gak ms kt opis ni sbb ada keje walau pon area yg diexplore tu, bukanlah pilihan hati. But, it's OK, it is still add new knowledge and skill sbb I just love to learn and practice what I've learnt.<br /><br />Eventhough jrg2 update blog, but am a consistent reader to my blog lists, sapa yg ade buat update lah. Seronok baca update korang, sometimes made me frown, sometimes made me smile, sometime made me ketawa kekek2 sorg2 kt sini. Thank you all for your lovely write-up. Really make my day everyday tau!<br /><br />Skang still bulan raya, lagi seminggu nk abes. Citer psl raya, kt KL, mmg xberaya sgt, sbb nak elak tersangkut dlm jem!Alah, bkn ade org jemput openhouse pun kan! Eh ada, tp timing xsesuai.(nampak mcm xramai kwn jer!hihik!) Org dtg rumah pon xde, ehehe, bukan xnak jemput, mailah dtg, tp jgn dtg terkejut tergempak..xde bende nk jamu kang! Tapi kalau nk dtg terkejut tergempak pon ape salahnya...Surprise gitu! Hihik..mkn jelah ape yg ada kt umah tu yer! Kalau bitau awal2..mungkin leh msk sikit2 buat alas perut...hihihi..saya ni jrg msk, konfiden tu kureng...ehehe..<br /><br />Ha, cite psl bos ritu, die dh xmrh2 dah, sy dh dpt prektik kan apa yg kwn2 lain nasihatkn, alhamdulillah, so dah xde stress kt opis dah. Sejak2 work together dgn omputih ni, mcm ade new motivation pulak, cewah. Hrp2, berkekalan lah motivation at work ni! Nak jd cam omputih tu rsnya xmampu kot..sgt sabar dgn client..maklumlah..diorg consultant kan! English diorg sgt best! Haruslah kan! Hihihi..<br /><br />Dulu2 ade pnah cite psl tadika Aqil ni kan, kebetulan pulak ade CIC baru nk bukak kt situ. InshaAllah nk anta Aqil for one year kt situ. Sbb franchise, sure dia ada dah established module. So hrp2 akademik dia majulah siket. Currently, academic dia lemah, and die nampak stress bila disuruh blajar kt rumah pulak. Lagipun mmg permintaan dia, dia xnak skolah kt tadika dia dah. Bosan agaknya sbb dh 2 thn kt situ, xde new environment, blajar bende yg sama ajer tiap thn. So lesson learnt, xyah kot anta tadika awal2..budak2 bosan! Kalu kelas xbercampur, I think OK. CIC ni mahal la siket yuran bulan2 dia, tp mcm xsanggup nk teruskan kt tadika yg skang sbb risaukan nnt dia xley catch up bila masuk dajah 1 besok. Ada jugak consideration nk enroll KMS, tp mcm xkonfiden nk g interview and assessment dia..buleh lepaske Aqil ni, sbb dpt info leh enroll ms budak umur 6 thn..so next year Aqil 6 thn...thn critical utk early education..Saya pon dulu tadika sethn jer pun..tadika kemas jer...kalau kemas tu ade daycare...mmg saya anta situ jer...sbb module dah extablish dan masih relevan utk persediaan budak ke thn 1...Kita tgk jelah papa enroll Aqil kt mn sbb die project sponsor..hahaha..mama jd consultant jer!<br /><br />Oklah, gtg, kene keje pulak..baru nk merapu2..ehehe..Ms Jhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12434940879878870949noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3254729163627527544.post-73886878492015013022011-08-10T08:30:00.003+08:002011-08-10T08:40:43.293+08:00Nasi Arab yg KantoiHah, teruja bila membelek resipi-resipi di internet, lalu terpahat kt resepi nasi arab. Lalu, tersimpanlah impian untuk merealisasikan resipi tersebut.
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<br />Kemudian, setiap bahan diteliti dan disemak 'availability' di dapur comel kt rumah. Mana yg tak ada, masuk dlm senarai beli. Kemudian, pergilah membeli belah rempah2 yg tidak 'available', oh, masa ni lah, saya mengenal rempah secara lebih dekat. Selama ni, mkn beli kt kedai, tunggu 20 minit, siap..ehehe..
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<br />Setelah bhn dibli, "contemplating" nk bli basmathi, setelah di"ponder" dgn lebih mendalam, maka "decision" nya, guna beras biasa dulu, sbb fes time, takut xjadi.
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<br />Apa yg yg ditakut, itulah terjadi, gambar xamik sbb "frust" teramat sgt, konon nk buat lauk berbuka pose, lalu dgn sepantas kilat, terus goreng nasi lebihan sahur pg tu sbg back up. Kebtulan pulak suami xg param sbb hujan rahmat turun dgn lebatnya, jd sukar utk meninjau2 menu di param.
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<br />Tetapi, "lesson is learnt!". Sukatan perlu menggunakan sukatan yg sama. Mana nk jadi kalau nasi terlbih air, mujur xjadi bubur, lum masuk hangit lagi..habes periuk nasi ku...ehehe..setelah di "CSI" kan, sbb musabab kenape nasi ku hangit dan lembik, mmg 1 jer perkara yg terlps pandang, cwn sukatan beras dan air xsama saiz. Bila tak sama, sukatan air lari, namun rasa tetap ada, sedap..cuma rsnya xbuat lg dah kut, sbb nasi berempah-rempah ni, mmg bukan feveret saya.
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<br />Niat nk buat utk suami tapi xmenjadi pulak..sbb die gemar nasi berempah2 ni, especially nasi beriani..hmm..jom cari resepi beriani yg mudah...:)..hrp2 xterkantoi lagi la...sbb jwpnnya...ke tong sampah...ehehe
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<br />Oh, resepi nyer, cr kt myresipi. Tajuk dia, Nasi ARAB Berempah.
<br />Ms Jhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12434940879878870949noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3254729163627527544.post-22111055555216730702011-08-02T09:16:00.002+08:002011-08-02T09:29:48.239+08:00Tanam AnakTajuk mmg ngeri. Tapi itulah hakikatnya. Walaupun cite ni cite dlm sok kabar, yg kesahihan nya pun diragui (sok kabar skang suka siar isu panas, kesahihan xdpt dipasti, ade tokok tambah atau pengurangan jln cite yg sebenar - wartawan skang sgt kreatif mengarangkan!).<br /><br />Tapi sekiranya benar, saya rasa pelik, org yg bunuh anak sendiri buleh terlepas hukuman dan dibebaskan. Saya baca lagi, hukuman di kensel sbb testimoni xcukup, cuma ada dari isterinya. Lepas pada dibebaskan, buleh pulak si isteri dan seorg lagi anak, peluk cium si suami yg dituduh. Keluarga ni, bukan keluarga Islam.<br /><br />Bila baca2 lagi, si isteri dlm testimoni, bitau kata, bila anak dia buat perangai, die cuma bagi pelempang gitu, and ada lagi lah hukuman2 dia bagi kat anak yg buat perangai. Tapi camna sampai boleh mati anak tu? Lepas tu, pegi tanam anak tu mlm2, xckp kt org, so org syak die bunuh anak dia sendiri.<br /><br />Yang saya rs ngilu tu bila si isteri boleh ckp, pelempang tu amalan biasa mereka dlm mendidik anak, anak dia mati beberapa thn yg lps, kecik lagi xsilap, mesti kuat sungguh pelempang sampai terjatuh kt mn2 kah, pendarahan dalaman lalu mati.<br /><br />Bagaimana ibu bapa sanggup bg pelempang kt anak2? Tergamaknya buat cemtu kt darah daging sendiri, saya pon kalau dh xthn sgt, saya menangis sendiri, rs hopeless sendiri sbb anak tu xsalah, ibu bapa yg mencorakkn anak2, jd sy xnampak kenapa perlu hukum anak tu secara fizikal. Siket2 tu ok lah, tp yg pelempang penuh perasaan, mcm dlm drama2 kt TV, mmg sy haramkn tgk kalau anak2 ada sama2. Sbb diorg ni mudah terikut2. Apa yg diorg nampak, itulah diorg ikot.<br /><br />Jadi, asas didikan bermula dr rumah, bukan dr nursery, bukan dr babysitter, walau org ckp, ms yg dispend kt tpt2 tu lg lama utk ibu bapa yg bekerja. Utk future, spy anak2 masa depan ni, berakhlak mulia, kita ibu bapa, kene byk bersabar, kene byk berfikir strategi utk didik anak kt zaman yg serba canggih ni. Kalau tak, hanyut anak2 muda nanti....InshaAllah, selalu-selalu lah berdoa, anak2 kita sentiasa dilindungi Allah dan sentiasa bersama manusia-manusia yg berhati mulia..Ameen...Ms Jhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12434940879878870949noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3254729163627527544.post-23277007867677436012011-07-14T14:08:00.002+08:002011-07-14T14:21:30.317+08:00Perangai BosMacam-macam la perangai bos ni. Saya pulak asyik terkena perkara yg saya tak suka. Perkara yg membuatkn saya rasa rendah diri teramat-amat, dlm kata lain, jatuh air muka saya! Walau perkara tu kecil, kalau one to one, saya boleh terima, tapi, punishment depan org lain, mmg saya xley blah! Saya mmg akan terasa hati sbb saya mmg sensitip.<br /><br />Lagi satu, saya mmg paling xtahan bekerja dgn bos yg ego. Dia jelah yg betul, pendapat dialah yg paling bagus, org lain suma xbetul, cuma ade certain2 org jer yg dia suka, dia puji2. Lagi satu, bila kita tegur kesilapan dia, dia pusing kot lain nak dia jugak betul. Saya tahulah dia pangkat tinggi, high achiever, tp serius, saya siap tunjuk bukti nk betulkan statement dia, still, nak dia jugak betul.<br /><br />Opismet saya pon geleng kepala sbb time dia handle bende tu, ok jer, time saya, mmg dia kasi hard times kt saya, dh byk kali, walau saya xreport direct dgn dia. Sampai satu masa-masa tu, saya jadi avoiding dia tiap kali nampak bayang dia. Benda ni bukan jadi kt saya sorg, kwn sy pon sama. Masing2 xsbr nk pindah keluar dr dept ni. Bos itu salah satu sebab saya xselesa bekerja.<br /><br />Sapa jd bos, tolonglah considerate kat anak buah. Mmg la awak tu bos, tp ingat yer, hidup ni ade turun naik, eh silap, mcm roda...kalau awak buat kt org, nnt perkara tu berbalik kt awak pulak..so, jadilah bos yg considerate, and igtlah, manusia xperfect, so blajar2 lah terima teguran walau dr bilis cam saya ni....Ms Jhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12434940879878870949noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3254729163627527544.post-23657463716794579222011-07-11T09:22:00.002+08:002011-07-11T09:46:02.908+08:00KL GangsterSemalam, hubby ajak tgk KL Gangster, die donlod jer. No free vacation time for two of us to watch kt cinema. Last time, we watched Harry Potter, (the one before the part 7 tu), we took annual leave to watch it together durign the weekdays. And after the movie ended, I felt so horrible, because leaving my poor baby and enjoy ourselves for the movie. Some people may said, it's ok to have "couple outing" but depends. So, no need to badmouth for both type of parents lah, it's their choice, they know what's best for themselves.<br /><br />OK, back to KL Gangster, media said, this movie has collected millions during its first week (was it??). So, that's why my hubby donloded it and we watched it. Me, who is really hates violence and "ckp carut" really1000x dislike this movie. But I took some salient points from the movie,<br /><br />1. Not all gangster are bad, they still have soft part in themselve but just to ego to show it!<br />2. Once you become a gangster, you put yourself in risk, you also put your friends/family in risk as well. And your enemy will be your forever enemy until both repent! (which is hard, they are like "hati keras macam batu/intan, susah mau pecah - dendam kesumat mmg buleh mati bersama2 mereka)<br />3. Bila nk berubah, susah jugak life gangster tu, sbb ketua gengster mesti ajak join balik, walau xpaksa, tp sbb mmg dh ade musuh ketat, mmg buleh ubah niat dr nk bertaubat, rejoin balik.Hanya yg hati kental jer, xkan rejoin dan tawakal, ape nk jadi, jadilah...mcm kes Malik dlm cite ni.<br />4.Gangster ni, die suke duit dan kuasa, sama mcm politik gak kot, suke duit dan kuasa, xkisah apa pun, janji dpt duit dan kuasa, xkire la walau terpaksa bunuh adik badik, kawan baik...khianat, menipu, bunuh org, ugut org...utk dpt duit nk hidup senang...janji ketua kasi duit byk, walau ketua tu yg khianat adik badik dia....pokoknya...mmg org xcerdik la yg jd "dog" kpd gangster2..ketua buat salah...pun masih agung2 kan..<br />5.Bahasa pertuturan, mmg giler kesat, xsdap lgsg didgr oleh halwa telinga.Tapi lakonan ajib (sape tah nama pelakon tu) dgn fadil (zizan) mmg best sbb diorg jer yg rsnyer penghidup cerita tu...kire bagi cool sket...sbb jln cerita die tegang...bergaduh ajer....malek (aaron) mmg watak serius muka xde perasaan, shark (syamsul) pulak mcm gengster poyo,<br /><br />Kesimpulannya, xdelah best sgt pon, mungkin utk anak muda drh panas, suka la kot bab gaduh2bertumbuk2 tu..martial arts tu quite nampak real lahh...kelass la jugak..tu jer...pemilihan pelakon...kene la jugak kot...cuma aaron tu..nampak muka baik sgt lah!pehtu ending die xbest...mcm tergantung...pehtu die cuma buat penceritaan jer ape jadi kt malek dgn dragon tu...org tunjuklah scene selari dgn penceritaan..apedaaaa...bosan!Ms Jhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12434940879878870949noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3254729163627527544.post-28970893391672156682011-07-08T12:34:00.002+08:002011-07-08T12:44:09.755+08:00YellowOrg ckp, sensitif kaler kuning ni. Hari ni je kt opis, baju kuning jd bhn lawak satu opis. Smlm ade jugak dgr omelan org sana sini psl perhimpunan BERSIH 2.0. Hmm, ada jugak terbaca dlm paper, tp agak malas nk amik pot serius sgt sbb, xuntung ape pun, rugi adalah...sbb GERAM bila baca (naik pulak blood pressure kang!). Byk ketidakadilan di situ. Bila la Mesia nk matang ni? Mcm2 hal.Kenape lah suka ikot-ikot org? Kenapa nk berhimpun bagai sbb nk adil? Kenapa kerajaan xlaksana kan sesuatu dgn adil, bkn semata-mata inginkan kuasa dan wang?(Takdelah rakyat nk berhimpun mintak keadilan) Kenapa wujud org2 yg camni?(Org gila kuasa & wang) Sampai bila agaknya tiap kali nk dekat2 pilihanraya, perang mulut, perang media, perhimpunan...akan berlaku. (Rimas sbb kt berita kutuk sana sini, malu seh...dgn foreigner2 yg tonton, baca berita2 cemtu...xmalu ke?)<br /><br />Tapi, betullah, x adil sungguh nk tangkap org sbb die cuma pakai baju BERSIH jer??Adil ke cemtu ek?Saya pelik, sampai kdg2 rs takut diam di negara tumpah drh sendiri ni. Belum masuk jenayah2 yg sering berlaku. Smlm, bwk beg galas, mmg xtenteram hidup spjg nk balik ke rumah naik LRT. Hari ni, back to bagpack semula. Dah macam tomboy pulak. Padahal pakai baju kurung, skirt pergi keje...sbb takut peragut..fobia...sbb dh pernah terkena..selama nya teringat...even tiap kali lalu kt tpt kene ragut tu...rs menyumpah2 dan benci sbb kat tpt suci pon ade penjenayah...Sedih, negaraku bukan negara yg selamat..Penjenayah merata-rata...(Trauma itu masih ada...)Ms Jhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12434940879878870949noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3254729163627527544.post-76449035266413087252011-06-30T08:43:00.003+08:002011-06-30T09:01:02.008+08:00The price of taxThis morning, when passed through the flat housing area, just next to the LRT, I saw a banner written with "Jangan Kacau Hak Kami"..something like that. The banner just hang up at the front entrance of illegal parking area at that flat housing. The area was supposed to be an empty spaces with green grass purposely planted on it by the DBKL, I guess. Since, the flat is currently fully occupied or tenanted to singles or family, so, there are a lot of cars parked at that area.<br /><br />I guess, this low cost flat was meant for low income family to live in which may not affordable to get their own car and much relying on public transportation. Because this area is mostly visited by RapidKL buses.<br /><br />Then, since recently, I was told by someone, when we were having chitchatting during the break, she told me the story about tax deduction. Only now I know how much the govt has taken from me and others. I never know that the tax paid is quite high and become higher when your income become more. 1/4 of the annual income is taken by the govt every year! Now I understand why the taxpayers are really mad on how the govt spent the money into. Because, most of the taxpayers are non-govt employee because there is the minimum income that one is required to pay tax.<br /><br />So, when I saw that banner, I was mumbling that, "korang bukan byr tax pun..every facilities ni, taxpayers yg provide the money to put things in action, korang yg enjoy all the facilities prepared by govt...middle income yg tersekat in between, but diligently paying tax.Kami nk bli rumah low cost xbley, rumah medium cost pun dah xavailable, tinggal rumah lama yg rege naik mencanak2 mcm xlojik! Rumah yg besar, lagila diluar kemampuan...bersyukur jelah...share parking pon kedekut, mcm korang byr cukai tanah utk area tu pun!"<br /><br />Sometimes I doubt about the house pricing. I see it as it is not controlled by the govt. The price hike is too steep. For example area in setiawangsa, launching price 4 years ago was 399k, now, the price is doubled! I am very much puzzled since the land is leasehold. And what about another 4 years down the road?? Can it be triple???Ms Jhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12434940879878870949noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3254729163627527544.post-66856726459629355642011-06-28T08:45:00.003+08:002011-06-28T09:08:36.423+08:00Ape-ape ajerDah lama xmembebel kat sini. Asal terasa nk update, tiba-tiba otak jadi kosong, xde idea ape nk cerita. Nak cerita hal kehidupan seharian ke, isu semasa ke, resipi baru ke (takdenyer nak reka-reka resepi baru..eheh..amik resepi org jer!). Betul, hampir-hampir nk tutup account ni dah. Tapi bila renung-renung balik, byk dah dititip kat dalam ni, dlm english, rojak, melayu, sayang pulak rasanya nk tutup blog ni sbb tuan blog dah malas nk type entry baru. Hehe.Bukan sibuk sangat pon, asyik bertangguh-tangguh lama-lama idea yg tiba-tiba muncul "ting!" tu hilang bila dah berhari-hari tangguh kan.Hehe.<br /><br />Skang ni kt umah demam Boboiboy. Asyik mintak tgk katun tu jer. Padahal katun tu dok ulang tayang episod yg sama ajer berkali-kali, rasa-rasa nya adalah nk dekat 4 kali kot. Punya lah TV nak kaut untung kan!Budak igt xtahu ke diorg dah tgk episod tu belum, diorg tahu lah! Sbb dulu BEN10 pun suke diulang tayang, sama lah mcm mickeymouse clubhouse dan katun2 lain. Lama-lama, bila dah asyik tgk episod yang sama, boringlah budak, so, demam BEN10 dah pulih, skang ni Boboiboy pulak, mentang skang ada version english. Haiya...padahal jln cerita sama, CD pun dah dibeli yg original...budak-budak...<br /><br />Tahun depan, cadangnya nk masukkan Aqil skolah baru, tp belum lagi buat survey tadika yg baru. Aqil ckp nk tadika mickey mouse. Sbb dekat2 umah tu ade tadika mickey mouse sebenarnya, tp saya agak kurang berkenan bila tgk keadaaan persekitaran tadika tu yg kurang keceriaan nya, pilihan kaler yang agak out.<br /><br />Bab pilih tadika kat Malaysia ni, kalau yg "big value" tu, susah nk ckp. Byk jer yg xkenanya. Tapi yg penting adalah security dan jugak hygiene. Bukan nk mengutuk, tp mmg mcm kenyataan, org Malaysia ni, pd observation saya, kurang menjaga kebersihan. Terutama pd kanak-kanak, diorg ni mmg suka main redah jer. Makan xbasuh tgn pas main puas-puas. Jadi mmg saya hari-hari risau kalau anak-anak ni terkene infection ke ape. Semlm, yg kecik mcm dh nk demam, mujur semangat die kuat, tambah support dr papa, abang, mama, alhamdulillah..pagi ni as usual.<br /><br />Saya bersyukur jugak, Alhamdulillah, anak-anak ceria dan sihat walau org buleh ckp diorg ni kurus. Saya senang ckp, tgk saiz mak dia lah, camtula saiz anak dia, ehehe..:)..sbb mak dia yg selalu available untuk anak-anak kan.Hehe.Masa baby, kuar besar, bile membesar, kurus-kurus jer tapi bukan cikeding yer! Just appropriate!Saya pun xnak anak-anak saya gemuk-gemuk, nnt tak larat saya nak angkat, bahayakan tulang belakang saya jugak!<br /><br />Tadi nk cerita pilih tadika. Kalau ada cadangan buleh la bagitahu saya. Nak area2 dr daerah wangsa maju ke KLCC. Kalau ade daycare lg bagus.Kalau g keje lalu MRR2 lah biasa nya. Oh ya, sesiapa keje kt KLCC, yg dah xnak guna season parking kt bwh tu utk kereta yer, kutlah, nk berhijrah ke, nk bercuti ke, nk retire, nk benti ke, hulur2 lah kata saya tanpa ambil untung yer. Orang skang sume pk nk amik untung atas angin kan. Sume perkara nk dijadikan bisnes, mcm desperate sgt jer...ish!Ms Jhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12434940879878870949noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3254729163627527544.post-67806634252653962782011-06-07T09:34:00.004+08:002011-06-07T09:45:05.946+08:00WhiningI'm sitting here, feeling empty. Works coming in, the excitement is fading. I'm whining again. I feel lost, be in the dead end. I've done all I've to do but there's still more I could do. I need the courage which I've lost long ago. I need the confidence that 've been buried long ago. I'm not a wait-n-see but now, I feel like I am one of it. There's nothing much I could do when it comes to governance which I never see.I'm whining, I'm unhappy with my work. I lost my passion long ago, friends heard me so many times, but 'people' did'nt hear me screaming out everyday that I really wanted to work on my skill & knowledge. Yes, I'm whining again. I should stop this. I must love my work, whatever it is, just learn to love it even it took me for granted. This is what I'm getting now, the future, no one knows God's plan. Hopefully it's going to be a fair future for my career. I need to live up my talent to the fullest which I currently can't because of 'them' making it impossible of absurd reason. This is life. Life is never been fair to everyone.<img style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 455px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 543px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://inidna.files.wordpress.com/2011/03/whine.jpg" border="0" />Ms Jhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12434940879878870949noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3254729163627527544.post-20396260564354921322011-05-26T08:31:00.002+08:002011-05-26T08:41:56.330+08:00In SilentSometimes, when we say so much, our words eat us. Better to be in silence. But deep in heart, the arguments never stop. The brain keeps thinking of possible question and answers to an issue. It never stop until it gets tired, and even, during sleeptime, the brain is always working. That is why, when in coma, we are encourage to chit chat to the "dead" person to stimulate the brain so the "dead" will fight againts the sickness and gets recovered.<br /><br />Sometimes, when we keep silence, people tends to misinterprete our silo. There could be anything in the world that make a person suddenly in silo. We are very complicated in nature, its up to us how we manage ourselves, either we carry on to be a complicated person, or we gets ourselves improved from day to day. It is us. Solely depends on us! Some people may say, I am like this, not much you can do. If your action does not affecting others negatively, then it is OK, but if your action/behaviour/attitude make other people feels irritating, then, you need to change, seriously. Just don't be selfish to stick at your status quo attitude which irritate others.<br /><br />Why I am writing this, just to make the reader, don't judge me on anything if I didnt post a new topic...:)...Don't rumors, don't gossips, don't slanders...my silence has nothing to do with the readers or others. Btw, my blog is just an ordinary one where no one would even wait for a new topic to pop out day by day...:)Ms Jhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12434940879878870949noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3254729163627527544.post-14654120249787252672011-04-27T12:03:00.003+08:002011-04-27T13:05:31.126+08:00Long WeekendBaru hari Rabu, dah nk cerita pasal weekend. Hehe..maklumlah, this coming weekend will be a not-so-long weekend, ala, 3 hari jer cuti. Ada kwn dah tanya, apa plan saya. Apa yer plan weekend ni?<br /><br />Jom kita main masak-masak nak? Tak lama lagi ade Malaysia Masterchef, apa la agaknye masakan diorg nnt yeh? International dishes ke, asian dishes ke...hmm...can't wait to watch it in all malay language. Hrp2 jgn ikot skrip sudah...skema sgt bunyik nyer!! Xreal!Ms Jhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12434940879878870949noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3254729163627527544.post-23625490319846329272011-04-26T10:17:00.002+08:002011-04-26T10:40:37.972+08:00Saket TelingaSemalam masa nk amik Aqil dari tadika, belikan la sedikit kuih-kuih utk die makan sementara tunggu dinner. Sebabnya, setiap kali balik dr tadika, mesti ckp, "Mama, saya lapar ni, ada makanan?" Then, mmg die sendiri akan cari lah. Tambah skang ni saya single, jd pakat bli ajerlah kuih-kuih tu. Bila suami ada, saya buatlah siket2 ajer kt rumah, macam cekodok ke, tp suami mrh sbb oily, pehtu yg kecik die suke lenyek2 cekodok tu, xmkn. Tapi Aqil mmg sgt happy kalau saya buatkn kuih utk dia. Kdg-kdg rs surprise, anak sebesar 4thn ni tahu nk menghargai orang dan jaga hati org terutama hati mama dia.<br /><br />Sampai umah, pas amik adik, tetiba Aqil terbaring kat sofa. Saya tanyalah kenapa baring jer, macam xsihat. Naluri ibu, mesti dpt tangkap ade yg xkena dgn anak dia. Lepas tu saya tgk muka dia macam nk menangis. Saya tanyalah kenapa sekali lg. Dia ckp, dia saket. Saya tanya lagi, saket kt mana? Hati dah mula risau, yelah, sorang-sorang nk handle difficult situation, gabra jugak. Sbb rs xmenang tgn jer sbb dah ada 2 org anak.<br /><br />Lepas tu Aqil buka cerita. Dia cakap dia saket telinga, even baring pon telinga yg xsaket yg atas bantal. Saya tanya lagi, Cemane leh saket? Ade gigi nk tumbuh ke? Saya pon xtahu ape kaitan, saya assume mungkin sbb geraham nk tumbuh ke kan. Saya tanya telinga lg satu saket ke tidak, die jawab tak. Lepas tu, dia bagitahu ada cikgu tarik telinga dia masa blajar sbb dia xtahu membaca. Die pun bagitahu nama cikgu tu, tp sy mmg xknal yg mn satu, cikgu2 situ xpakai nametag, saya kenal muka jer...ehehe..Saya pun agak terkejut, sbb principle tadika dia dh maklumkan hukuman-hukuman bg pelajar2 nakal, xde pulak tarik telinga tu dibenarkn. Dan disbbkn kenakalan barulah pelajar tu dihukum, itupun akan dimaklumkn kepada ibu bapa.<br /><br />Saya tahu Aqil ni nakal, budak lelaki, main je byk, mmg die belum mahir membaca, kdg2 hangin jugak, sbb 2 thn tadika, masih xtahu membaca. Saya pun kdg2 terlps angin radang sy kt dia sbb terlalu kecewa dgn pencapaian dia. Lepas tu saya menyesal sampai nk menangis bila kenangkn kemarahan saya kt dia. Terukkn saya!<br /><br />Saya pun belek telinga dia, ok, xde ape-ape, mungkin cikgu tu tertarik kuat sgt. Saya tanya die balik, sama ada saya penah tak tarik telinga dia sbb dia notty. Dia geleng kepala. Sampai dia xlalu nk mkn nasi walau saya suapkan sbb dia ckp, telinga dia saket. Saya mmg questioned dia betul nak pastikn dia xkeliru dgn sebab yg dia beritahu saya. Lepas tu, saya promise, saya akan ckp dgn cikgu @ ustazah dia pasal hal tu.<br /><br />Kemudian, sy masih xpuas hati, sbb saya xnak, hal kecil Aqil perbesarkn. Jadi, saya mintak die demo kat saya. Saya mintak dia tarik telinga saya utk sahkan cerita dia. Then suddenly...die geleng kepala, saya tanya kenape,<br /><br />"Sebab SAYANG..."<br /><br />Masa tu rs luluh hati sy dgr ape yg kuar dr mulut dia. Terharu sgt bila dgr dia ckp camtu. No wonder, die xpnah kasar dgn adik dia, dan bising-bising mulut saya ms die suke pukul2 saya dulu tu, berkesan kt dlm diri dia. Anak sekecil 4 thn pun dah tahu erti kasih sayang, iaitu bila kita sayang org, kita xkn harm org tu, kita akan protect org tu.<br /><br />Saya xheran kalau ade ibubapa yg mrh cikgu sbb pukul anak dia. Tapi kenelah rasional. Sebab kalau overprotected, nnt jadi lain pulak. Pada saya, hukuman utk tujuan mendidik dan tidak keterlaluan, selagi xmendtgkan kecacatan fizikal dan mental kat anak-anak saya, saya masih buleh tolerate lg. Saya pon dulu pnah kene cubit sampai lebam dgn cikgu masa sekolah rendah sbb xhantar keje sekolah.<br /><br />Kadang-kadang, cikgu pun perlu igt, bila mendidik anak-anak kecil, perlu kesabaran yg sgt tinggi, mereka amanah org, jagalah amanah tu baik-baik, sbb sume org bakal disoal diakhirat kelak. Sebab tu, pekerjaan pendidik ni sgt mulia kalau pendidik tu ikhlas hatinya.Ms Jhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12434940879878870949noreply@blogger.com6