Assalamualaikum.
Yes, we heard the break out news!
Would like to wish all of you congratulations! Alhamdulillah. We, the non government servant, really expecting an improved customer services by the government servant (Should I hunt MARA again to get my missing allowance while study? Is it worth the effort??? - been a year without a reply to my request letter).
Be thankful of what you are getting. The most important is our preparation for the afterlife. Don't forget to pay your zakat!
Eventhough I'm getting a well paid everymonth, I still don't have any branded bag such as coach (I think this is the cheapest branded type of bag). Use your money wisely, no matter how much you get every end of month...:)
Assalamualaikum.
Thursday, March 8, 2012
Monday, March 5, 2012
Safeguarding the Muslim Women
Assalamualaikum,
It has been so long since my last post. Not is that I've been very busy, but lazy. :)
The new layout for blogger did take me sometimes to figure out where the create new post button, luckily, I found it and I knew it's a sign for me to post something here. I don't know if I still have my readers out there.
It always come to conclusion that I need to log out whenever ideas popped into my head. It was just the lazy bugs keep bugging me from everywhere. Hehe.
Well, I always have this in mind, since I turn 30 this year. Happy belated birthday to myself! The thing that've been thinking of is, I need a "CHANGE". Yeah, I need a good start to "CHANGE" anyway. It has been 30 years that I cherished every secon of it even I've forgotten all the memories when I was little kid. I really wish I can still remember them. Now, I really feel that I am an adult! Ha Ha.All this while I kept thinking that I am in my early 20s., and with that in mind, I think, it made me look younger than my real age or status as a mother of 2, for those who met me for the first time. And today, I think, I do look like my real age, I guess. I don't know.
The "CHANGE" that I mean here is a determination in becoming good servant to Allah the Al-mighty. That would be my focus from now on. I take it slowly and easy as I don't want it to be so jumpstart and then, spoilt. I can't remember very well how it seeps into me but I feel really good and ready about it. First thing that become my rule, is the "AURAT" or private part.
When first listened to the video from Ustaz Don via facebook, I was touched and reverted, on how I dressed up everyday. I know I've wearing hijab and decent attire before but when I listened to that video, there's still lacking. So, actually I reverted to the way I was before when I was so young. Sometimes, when your husband is all "OK" to what your dressed up, you tend to get carried away with it, plus, today, hijab has become a big fashion, a bit away from it original purpose, to cover your "AURAT". I really hope, my determination will become a continuos until my last breath. Ameen.
So sisters, lets put Allah first before fashion. Put on proper hijab and dress, you will feel very safe and secure. As to cover your "AURAT" is an order from Allah, written in Quran, verse 31, Surah An-Nur.
"And tell the believing women to reduce [some] of their vision and guard their private parts and not expose their adornment except that which [necessarily] appears thereof and to wrap [a portion of] their headcovers over their chests and not expose their adornment except to their husbands, their fathers, their husbands' fathers, their sons, their husbands' sons, their brothers, their brothers' sons, their sisters' sons, their women, that which their right hands possess, or those male attendants having no physical desire, or children who are not yet aware of the private aspects of women. And let them not stamp their feet to make known what they conceal of their adornment. And turn to Allah in repentance, all of you, O believers, that you might succeed."
Assalamualaikum. :) . I am apologize for any misstatement, kindly leave your comment for me to correct it. Thank you.
It has been so long since my last post. Not is that I've been very busy, but lazy. :)
The new layout for blogger did take me sometimes to figure out where the create new post button, luckily, I found it and I knew it's a sign for me to post something here. I don't know if I still have my readers out there.
It always come to conclusion that I need to log out whenever ideas popped into my head. It was just the lazy bugs keep bugging me from everywhere. Hehe.
Well, I always have this in mind, since I turn 30 this year. Happy belated birthday to myself! The thing that've been thinking of is, I need a "CHANGE". Yeah, I need a good start to "CHANGE" anyway. It has been 30 years that I cherished every secon of it even I've forgotten all the memories when I was little kid. I really wish I can still remember them. Now, I really feel that I am an adult! Ha Ha.All this while I kept thinking that I am in my early 20s., and with that in mind, I think, it made me look younger than my real age or status as a mother of 2, for those who met me for the first time. And today, I think, I do look like my real age, I guess. I don't know.
The "CHANGE" that I mean here is a determination in becoming good servant to Allah the Al-mighty. That would be my focus from now on. I take it slowly and easy as I don't want it to be so jumpstart and then, spoilt. I can't remember very well how it seeps into me but I feel really good and ready about it. First thing that become my rule, is the "AURAT" or private part.
When first listened to the video from Ustaz Don via facebook, I was touched and reverted, on how I dressed up everyday. I know I've wearing hijab and decent attire before but when I listened to that video, there's still lacking. So, actually I reverted to the way I was before when I was so young. Sometimes, when your husband is all "OK" to what your dressed up, you tend to get carried away with it, plus, today, hijab has become a big fashion, a bit away from it original purpose, to cover your "AURAT". I really hope, my determination will become a continuos until my last breath. Ameen.
So sisters, lets put Allah first before fashion. Put on proper hijab and dress, you will feel very safe and secure. As to cover your "AURAT" is an order from Allah, written in Quran, verse 31, Surah An-Nur.
"And tell the believing women to reduce [some] of their vision and guard their private parts and not expose their adornment except that which [necessarily] appears thereof and to wrap [a portion of] their headcovers over their chests and not expose their adornment except to their husbands, their fathers, their husbands' fathers, their sons, their husbands' sons, their brothers, their brothers' sons, their sisters' sons, their women, that which their right hands possess, or those male attendants having no physical desire, or children who are not yet aware of the private aspects of women. And let them not stamp their feet to make known what they conceal of their adornment. And turn to Allah in repentance, all of you, O believers, that you might succeed."
Assalamualaikum. :) . I am apologize for any misstatement, kindly leave your comment for me to correct it. Thank you.
Thursday, January 12, 2012
Property
Semalam g tengok sebuah property. Ku sangka indah, rupanya indah khabar dari rupa. And I really feel that it was a waste of time, energy because I had to bring two toddlers along and the youngest was cranky started from our house all the way through to the intended property.
I was so curious, as we dealt with an agent, the agent was so secretive, didn't want to tell us the property whereabout. The agent just said in general and we got no clue where the location. Until last night, when we were about lost already, and my youngest was crying immensely in the car then the agent told us where the street was. It was night time OK! It was really dissapointing that the agent kept so secret until the seconds we were about to view the property. Then, my husband said, usually the agents are afraid of someone taking over promoting their property if they reveal the exact location of that property.
So, off we went to find the street. At that point of time, I already decided am not going to agree in buying this property at all but have a look first since hubby insisted me to follow him. I've already said days before, just him alone go and view the property as we have kids to take care of and it's going to affect our mood while viewing. And it really was. I was really moody last night as I haven't had my dinner yet and so were the kids. Aqil with his homework to finish, luckily he said he was full after having some tea at his school I believe. Asif was otherwise, he just recovered from a fever the night before, and he was a little bit cranky than usual. So, it was a very tiring night for me. Need to carry him while viewing and need to bear his crying. I was very puzzled why he was behaving that way, very demanding.
OK, back to property. I think MALAYSIA PROPERTY IS BAD!!!!! I don't mean for new property that you purchased from developer or new property from subsale.The condition just don't do justice with the price. The price quoted just because LOCATION, LOCATION, LOCATION................LOCATION! The condition was bad for me, and I was so surprised. If I were to sell my property, I will staged it to a good condition before selling it out. But yesterday, with the price quoted, I think it was wayyy so pricey Because I need to spend at least 100k to make it a move in cosy move in condition. And the location is not within our preference. That was why I said last night was a wasting of my time and energy!
So, nasihat saya, kalau xnak buang masa dan tenaga pegi view property and ended up you solidly xnak beli,try to ask for, the property floor plan!, property area if the agent berahsia sgt part nama jalan, dan jugak, try cek archive kt property website tu, kot2 die pnah advertise not so long ago and readvertised. And we just know ms viewing, that the house has been sold, however, the documentation never gets done due to the buyer financial crisis. If the agent told us earlier about this, then, we don't think to waster the agent's time and the owner time to let us view the house as we only knew from mulut, buatnya ckp jer..but sebenarnya lain..how meh????
Then I said to my hubby, kenape buyer sanggup yg beli rumah buruk2 tu at a high price. Mesti dah byk sgt duit sampai xtahu nk buat ape..so bli rumah buruk2 mahal pun tutup mata...then renovate kasi cunnnnn...:)..Disbbkan org2 cani lahh...harga property makin naik...and the main reason is LOCATION!
Ended up mlm td xtido, sbb pergi lawat property yg 6 month xberpenghuni, Asif xnyenyak. Bgn pagi cam mamai. Dtg opis, meeting kul 8.30 pagi, pehtu kene bebel dgn GM sbb ada org xsampai lagi. Dengan xde mknn masuk perut dh kene bebel pepagi so, oh stressed I was in the morning, mmg meledak2 nyer gunung berapi nk meletup kt situ2 jugak...kang kejap lagi kul 3 kang..mmg konfem sengguk2...kalau tak pun..saket kepala....
I was so curious, as we dealt with an agent, the agent was so secretive, didn't want to tell us the property whereabout. The agent just said in general and we got no clue where the location. Until last night, when we were about lost already, and my youngest was crying immensely in the car then the agent told us where the street was. It was night time OK! It was really dissapointing that the agent kept so secret until the seconds we were about to view the property. Then, my husband said, usually the agents are afraid of someone taking over promoting their property if they reveal the exact location of that property.
So, off we went to find the street. At that point of time, I already decided am not going to agree in buying this property at all but have a look first since hubby insisted me to follow him. I've already said days before, just him alone go and view the property as we have kids to take care of and it's going to affect our mood while viewing. And it really was. I was really moody last night as I haven't had my dinner yet and so were the kids. Aqil with his homework to finish, luckily he said he was full after having some tea at his school I believe. Asif was otherwise, he just recovered from a fever the night before, and he was a little bit cranky than usual. So, it was a very tiring night for me. Need to carry him while viewing and need to bear his crying. I was very puzzled why he was behaving that way, very demanding.
OK, back to property. I think MALAYSIA PROPERTY IS BAD!!!!! I don't mean for new property that you purchased from developer or new property from subsale.The condition just don't do justice with the price. The price quoted just because LOCATION, LOCATION, LOCATION................LOCATION! The condition was bad for me, and I was so surprised. If I were to sell my property, I will staged it to a good condition before selling it out. But yesterday, with the price quoted, I think it was wayyy so pricey Because I need to spend at least 100k to make it a move in cosy move in condition. And the location is not within our preference. That was why I said last night was a wasting of my time and energy!
So, nasihat saya, kalau xnak buang masa dan tenaga pegi view property and ended up you solidly xnak beli,try to ask for, the property floor plan!, property area if the agent berahsia sgt part nama jalan, dan jugak, try cek archive kt property website tu, kot2 die pnah advertise not so long ago and readvertised. And we just know ms viewing, that the house has been sold, however, the documentation never gets done due to the buyer financial crisis. If the agent told us earlier about this, then, we don't think to waster the agent's time and the owner time to let us view the house as we only knew from mulut, buatnya ckp jer..but sebenarnya lain..how meh????
Then I said to my hubby, kenape buyer sanggup yg beli rumah buruk2 tu at a high price. Mesti dah byk sgt duit sampai xtahu nk buat ape..so bli rumah buruk2 mahal pun tutup mata...then renovate kasi cunnnnn...:)..Disbbkan org2 cani lahh...harga property makin naik...and the main reason is LOCATION!
Ended up mlm td xtido, sbb pergi lawat property yg 6 month xberpenghuni, Asif xnyenyak. Bgn pagi cam mamai. Dtg opis, meeting kul 8.30 pagi, pehtu kene bebel dgn GM sbb ada org xsampai lagi. Dengan xde mknn masuk perut dh kene bebel pepagi so, oh stressed I was in the morning, mmg meledak2 nyer gunung berapi nk meletup kt situ2 jugak...kang kejap lagi kul 3 kang..mmg konfem sengguk2...kalau tak pun..saket kepala....
Tuesday, January 10, 2012
Pilih-pilih
Alangkah baiknya kalau nk beli apa pun, dpt membeli pd harga yg kita mampu miliki. Tapi dalam pilih-pilih, takut bila dah pilih, tiba-tiba, ternampak pulak sesuatu yang lebih baik dari yang kita pilih, atau, pilih-pilih, saiz yg kita nak tu da xavailable. Tentu kecewa kan! Dan, bukan senang nak pujuk diri yang kecewa. Terasa, segalanya tak berpihak kepada kita. Memang kene berusaha supaya hati kita redha dgn ketentuanNya. Tambah sekarang, ada internet, bila melihat org lain punya sesuatu yg kita tidak miliki, tentu ada perasaan ingin memilikinya. Kalau dulu, berita disampai melalui telefon atau cakap2 mulut. Skang xperlu berckp, taip jer, tersebar lah berita tersebut ke serata dunia tanpa memikirkan perasan si pembaca. Eh, ape melalut ni! Haiyo!
Sebenarnya frust sbb terlps sesuatu disbb kan xtahu di mana silap. Tiba-tiba jer terasa tidak diberikan keadilan oleh manusia. Adakah wujud racism sbb saya ni MELAYU?? Ntahlah, Malaysia ni luaran je modern, mentaliti.? Sendiri-sendiri jer tahu...ye tak..?
Ku pohon Allah tabahkan hati, datangkan hikmah disebalik kekeciwaan ini..Ameen.
Sebenarnya frust sbb terlps sesuatu disbb kan xtahu di mana silap. Tiba-tiba jer terasa tidak diberikan keadilan oleh manusia. Adakah wujud racism sbb saya ni MELAYU?? Ntahlah, Malaysia ni luaran je modern, mentaliti.? Sendiri-sendiri jer tahu...ye tak..?
Ku pohon Allah tabahkan hati, datangkan hikmah disebalik kekeciwaan ini..Ameen.
Wednesday, October 12, 2011
12.10.2011
This is my sweetiecuppycake son, Aqil. He has turn 5 today! He is cheerful, loving, caring, independent and tough young boy I've ever seen. I'm blessed by having him around my arms for 5 years now. I cherished every moment we've been through together and am looking forward to see you succeed in your future undertakings! I've always love you despite all the scold I throw towards you. You are my dearest son, forever and always praying for your health, good attitude and success! Happy Birthday Aqil!!
I have no idea why the cake photo turn up like that, I've photoed it vertically, and it appears like that. Sorry pals, you have to turn your head to see the sweet cake I've ordered for him to take to his schools today! And below it, was the last minutes preparation for his party pack, I've no idea what to put inside, I bought the toys earlier, not toys, it's an artwork and brain stimulus wood pieces. The balloon and the stick (whatever it is called) was added by my husband.
Aqil has asked for Cars2 party bag and Jake and the neverland pirates cake. He asked me to do it myself but, I don't know how to decorate actually, so, I delegated it to the expert! hehe..
I did nto get to taste the cake, I'll ask Aqil once he get back from school today! But, really, the deco amazed me so much! I did not expect it will be as such sweet! Thank you kak Naz! (Sorry, I forgot her website actually..I will google it later!)
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