No Thing

It has been 4 days I've been a 'temporary single mum' and today, i feel really tired. I tried to control my patient in handling both kids..and i received some unwanted news from my eldest, die ckp cikgu pukul...hmm..this is not a first time..i checked kt tpt yg die claimed cikgu pukul...yess kt tadika dia..mmg they apply rotan as part of the punishment..especially when the kids beat other fren..so..the principal said, they will give slow talk dulu...if the kid still doing the same...baru kene rotan...and i was made to understand that they will informed the parents when ever the punishment take place...until now..no news about that...

As a mum, I always see my kids a good ones..and i feel that my eldest is still too young to understand the punishment...belum mumayyiz org ckp..i only afraid, the punishment will make him feel more 'tiny' and lose confidence in himself...that is my thinking...even, before i did punish him...and i feel sgtlah menyesal...because, he just don't deserve it...terasa how stupid i was, nk punish toddler...i rather choose psychological way of influencing him to behave good..and yes...i have been practicing it..but yes...really need a lot ...lottt of patient..and he slowly understand...which is good and which is wrong....

Kids love rewards..i used reward system in my approach to discipline him...and...i used 'love' system to get both kids stay together...daddy always worried of the eldest got too rough with baby...but that was before...as parents...we cannot always say...don't go near adik...or tepis2 die whenever die stay near kt adik...becoz he has good intention...so far....the eldest never harm adik...as org slalu ckp...abg jeles kt adik...and buat adik...but not to my kids...i trained and still training both kids to get together in a easy way...just let the eldest do what ever he wants to adik as long as it is safe...so..parents kene keep watching...and the result..tremendously....worth it...you sabar...and you manage to throw away your anger...and your kids feel close to you and respect you....that's what i feel for my kids....

p/s: tajuk xserupe entry kan...hihihi...:)