Saturday, July 31, 2010

Fair enough!

I missed my hometown badly!

The most that I missed is my mom's cooking.

From January to July, I've been there only once!

And I only met my parents twice! Not to say my siblings...very2 seldom!

Fair or not?

I am really not in a good mood today!

Feel like want to scream out loud!

Wonder how other people giving equal chances between own parents and in laws?

Friday, July 30, 2010

Stop Blogging

I have read many of post from my friends blogs on to stop blogging. I feel like it too.

Now, why?

1. Sometimes I feel my blog is boring and dull, I don't have attractive way of writing to make people keep visiting my blog!

2. I am afraid that anyone would feel offended of what I am writing even though I always write stuff that are really general and not pointing to anyone if i wrote uneasy things!

3. It is hard for me to find dedicated time to write a simple but concise post due to other commitment!

4. My blog is not that organize and i feel like rubbish!

5. I seldom put up real picture because I am lazy to upload from the phone/camera. I need to resize before posting them here which is the least i would do! Again no 3 is very much related to this!

The above 5 are the most common stumbles that I've always faced! That is why sometimes, I posted in bulk when I got time!

SALE season

As I walked through the corridor, i can see a lot of shop is having sale. Even the designer boutiques are also displaying "SALE" at their door! But, i never dare to go in to any of those designer boutiques!I feel really tiny to be one of the customer as I know, the price is too dear for me. Even some of the stuff is affordable but still, I always think of practicality rather than brand!

Friday is a shopping day! We have two hours of break and the time is usually utilised for shopping to many of the ladies including me!If not shopping, then window shopping or browsing!I really do love doing both!It's like a therapy for me after a stressful day!

Today, I was planning to do some shopping for the kids! And for myself too!I browsed around the ISETAN, looking for member's special discounted items! However, to my dissapointment, the items on SALE are not attractive enough for me to buy! Yeah, I am a bit choosy and cheapskate if you like to describe me. I will only buy things that worth buying. Before, i don't care on the brand, but now, i do care! I only bought worth buying stuff from infamous brands.

Attractive price would be more or less 70% off on the sale item! That is why I am always waiting fro pre-member sale. Stuffs are far good for 70% discount than what I browsed today. Last pre-member sale, I bought RM100++ for a set of 4 days officewear! Worth buying eh?

Tangisan seorg isteri

Jika isteri menangis dihadapanmu….
“hargai lah ia sblm terlewat…”

Jika seorang isteri menangis dihadapanmu,
itu bererti dia tidak dapat menahannya lagi…

Jika kau memegang tangannya saat dia menangis, dia akan tinggal bersamamu sepanjang hidupmu..

Jika kau membiarkannya pergi, dia tidak akan kembali menjadi dirinya yang dulu, selamanya!
Seorang isteri tidak akan menangis dengan mudah, kacuali didepan orang yang sangat dia sayangi, dia akan menjadi lemah!

Seorang isteri tidak akan menangis dengan mudah, hanya jika dia sangat menyayangimu.
Dia akan menurunkan rasa EGOnya.

Wahai suami2, jika seorang istri pernah menangis karenamu, tolong pegang tangannya dengan penuh pengertian.
Kerana dia adalah orang yang akan tetap bersamamu sepanjang hidupmu disaat kau terpuruk terlalu dalam …

Wahai suami2, jika seorang isteri menangis keranamu, tolong jangan menyia-nyiakannya. Mungkin, kerana keputusanmu, kau merosakkan kehidupannya.
Saat dia menangis didepanmu, saat dia menangis keranamu. Lihatlah jauh kedalam matanya. Dapatkah kau lihat dan kau rasakan SAKIT yang dirasakannya keranamu ?

Apakah keistimewaan perempuan ini ? ”
Dibalik KELEMBUTANYA dia memiliki kekuatan yang begitu dahsyat..
TUTUR katanya merupakan KEBENARAN..
SENYUMAN’nya adalah SEMANGAT bagi orang yang dicintainya. .
PELUKAN & CIUMAN’nya bisa memberi KEHANGATAN bagi anak2nya..

Dia TERSENYUM bila melihat temannya tertawa..
Dia TERHARU Dia MENANGIS bila melihat KESENGSARAAN pd org2 yg dikasihinya. ..
Dia mampu TERSENYUM dibalik KESEDIHAN’nya. .
Dia sangat GEMBIRA melihat KELAHIRAN..
Dia begitu sedih melihat KEMATIAN..
TITISAN air matanya bisa membawa PERDAMAIAN.

Tapi dia sering dilupakan oleh SUAMI krn 1 hal…
Bahawa “Betapa BERHARGAnya dia”…
Sebarkan ini ke SELURUH ISTERI2 yg soleha dan SUAMI2 yang kamu kenal agar mereka tidak lupa bahwa ISTERI mrk begitu berHARGA… Dan sangat berHARGA
.

Thursday, July 29, 2010

Health Check @ Office

I am lucky to be chosen to work within a caring company. The company has made many effort to the benefit of the employees. It is up to the individual to grab the opportunity given by the company or not. How busy we are at the office without getting what's going around in the company! Nahhh....it is your own call whether to mix around or not..it is really up to individual preference!

Having said that, recently, we had our health check, a basic health check by the staff from a private hospital. And as usual, the test would include glucose check, BMI check and BMR check. I was so happy that my body age is 18y.o but yes, knowing me, I am underweight, again! (maybe forever!). My weight slightly improved but I doubt whether it can be maintained or not. Hopefully it can!

I also had the opportunity to check bone density. Oh dear, mine was a bit lower which i fear! I need to take more calcium to remain steady and to avoid /delay osteoporosis! However, my bone is still developing.According to the chart, our bone will at maximum around the age of 30 and maintain until 40, then started to become porous.

It is essential to maintain a good health. Think of your family (spouse, kids) and be healthy. Good BMI is essential to avoind the potential of having critical sickness such as kidney failure, heart attack, diabetes and so forth! Being underweight is also not good but obese, is dangerous and killing. Living a healthy life is really worth it!

Wednesday, July 28, 2010

Avillion, Port Dickson

Last weekend, we had an away day at Avillion Port Dickson. It was only a 2 days 1 night away day for my department. I brought all the kids and hubby since my bbsitter was on leave last friday. I went to PD a night earlier to avoid hassle early in the morning. I thought I planned it right!

Everything was OK until, sleeptime. Aqil was excited and made noises which disturbed Asif who was asleep. Then Asif woke up and disturbed all of us who were really want to sleep...

The next morning, I drove to Avillion, it was not that far from the place we slept. I had the morning session, then afternoon, i picked up my other half and kids for checked in at Avillion.

What I can say about Avillion? It is a superb place for a short vacation for a family with kids! But I guess, it would be better if we go ther during weekdays, not so many guest in the hotel. As during the weekend, all rooms were fully booked and it was so many people around!

They have pet farm, bird sanctuary, reflexology stones, swimming pool with slides, beaches (they have two sides of beaches with white sand, very beautiful but we used the other one which I did not see anyone swimming along the beach! Therefore I am not sure whether it is safe to bathe there or not!)..the room is like our old village room with open air shower! Aqil really loves the shower!..and Asif loves the bath tub!

There, Aqil had his first time sand play in Malaysia beach! He was so contented on the last day and looking forward to have more fun in the future! I hope we can be there again in some other time and enjoy stuff that we missed last weekend!!

Potty Training

I was pretty amazed on Aida's approach for her Adam's potty training. Very well structured and organized. It has a complete cycle of a project, where she did some study & research (i know that she was a researcher, that's why she's really good at it!), then she made some plan out of her research, schedule, goals and rewards program. It was really a wonderful plan for her dear son. I really wish i could do the same too.

Being a fulltime working and now having a baby, it is tough for me to plan as good as Aida. Plus, I was not that particular by doing first study and then execution of the plan.(Not to say how lazy I am laaa kn!!..huhu)

What was really enlightened me was, last two days, Aqil voluntarily went to toilet to do his pee and poo. Was it wonderful yeh? Yes, it was like my dream come true. All this while, i kept thinking on how to execute the potty training series. My hubby suggested to do the same like Aida, the 7 days potty training, even i did consult with my friends on how to implement it, almost the same method like Aida did. Guess what, I never fully implemented the whole idea. Not much courage and determination. Plus, Aqil always on his tantrum which i really don't want to make him scream out loud from his lung...his brother never did that though!

And today is the third day, yesterday, not 100% in toilet since I was asleep while bf and there, the momentum disturbed a bit..(as expected when I leave things to my hubby to settle..man being man..)..This morning, he already peed in nappy before going to toilet. A missed there!

And today, he asked to put on his underpant but when going to sleep, i'll still put him on his nappy...I don't want the mattress becoming stinky! Hopefully tomorrow morning, his nappy is still dry...:)

1 Malam

My last post was about I'm going to Miri for a business trip. I went there alone, unluckily, my flight was delayed for an hour and arrived in Miri at midnight. However, i met few friends at the airport on the same route, so i was not alone at all (only during boarding, however!) as well as few bosses that i knew which will be going to the same business event on the next day.

I flew with MAS and I couldn't sleep throughout the flight. That was my first flight after returning from UK. More or less, a bit excited though! Guess what, the meal was really improved!! I ate like never eaten!..Haha..knowing me, you can expect how much i eat usually..*wink*wink

The preparation was not that complicated since i was away for only one night. I managed to hold strong heart, not to cry or to miss a lot my little pumpkin back in KL. I believe that when I am strong, my kids will be strong too!! However, being a booby-fed baby, my little pumpkin woke up quite several times during the nightime and causing my hubby to sleepdeprived on the next day. He got MC on Monday after visited the GP...(gosh, when i called him, i thought he was joking when he said he's at home, only when I returned and check there was new medicine in the fridge, then i knew it was true!..man being man..haha! - now you know how much sacrifice I've been making all this while ya!..eheh)

My return flight was also slightly delayed but managed to get home around 8.30 pm. Overall, I enjoyed my trip and looking forward to have more trips..haha...pity to hubby as I am now turning into workholic mummy...ehehe...

p/s: Sometimes it is good to have your own time at your own pace!

Saturday, July 10, 2010

Outstation?

My bos asked me to go to MIRI...but it was through email. I did not see him and asked for waived!.
But being in a risky position right now..i don't know if i should ask for a waive since another colleague is going too...but the event content is actually more to my area of expertise (eceh..mcm expert sgt jer!) and very related to my jobscope.

Asked hubby to take care ASIF for a night..he refused...so i plan for a day trip..but will have to join the event a bit late! This i will definitely asked my bos! As my colleague got no problem to go on Sunday...(dia laki2..bkn jaga anak pon!)..but..if i take MAS...i'll be able to join around 11am...and AirAsia...if there's no delay...and is on time..i can join around 10am..which is OK...

The thing is...AirAsia is famous with delaying in schedule without prior notice...arghhhh...and quite early in the morning...i need to take cab to to LCCT..(selamat ke??...ishh..ader airport limo ke g LCCT?)...

Another option...bring ASIF...but..need to find babysitter at MIRI!..(still waiting reply from the resort whether they provide bbsitting services...tgk rate jugak....hmm..)

Difficult...very difficult...hmmm...

Thursday, July 1, 2010

Bad vs Good

Today is a bad day n a good day for me. Bad as i've decided something which is a bit childish nut i have to for the sake of humanity (ayat xley blah!!..:p)

Also a Good day for me as i have more lesson learnt. Oh, not to forget, i trained myself to be a listener for someone and glad that she already let out her feelings and share with me, a fruitful sharing though!

Today the biggest massive restructuring of my company took effect. i am awaiting an official letter to know where will my dept resided. Afterall bad news has been published...that our profit is less than the financial year before...even we've practice a lot of cost saving initiative..someone said, we've been robbed!..huhu...just a tossed of joke!

p/s: xley tulis pjg2 psl tgh hold baby Asif..btw..Asif dh tumbuh gigi...;)